Leave the Pile Higher, Grow Your Legacy
In 1983, my father, a hardworking blue-collar worker, made a life-altering decision for our family. Faced with the choice of my education, he chose to send me to a private Catholic high school, despite the financial challenges. His reason was simple yet profound: “My job is to leave the pile higher for you and your sister.” This statement, a guiding principle of his life, didn't fully resonate with me until after his untimely passing in 2018. It's this legacy of selflessness and commitment that birthed 'Leave the Pile Higher: Grow Your Legacy'.
On what would have been my father's 75th birthday, I launched this podcast as an extension of his “Why”. Here, we explore the intangible aspects of legacy that go beyond monetary or material wealth. Each episode delves into stories of resilience, creativity, and how breaking societal scripts can lead to profound impacts on others.
Join us for heart-to-heart conversations with diverse guests who share their journeys of setbacks, triumphs, and unwavering hope. We discuss how small acts and bold decisions can contribute to a lasting legacy, proving that anyone can make a difference, no matter their financial or social standing.
'Leave the Pile Higher: Grow Your Legacy' isn't just a podcast; it's a movement, a tribute to my father and to all those who strive to make life better for the next generation. It's about acknowledging that while we can't control the length of our lives, we can control its width and depth.
Subscribe now and be part of this journey. Let’s honor the philosophy of leaving the pile higher, not just for ourselves, but for those who follow. Let's build.
Leave the Pile Higher, Grow Your Legacy
Healing the Fatherless and Amplifying Voices: Charvette Shirk Pitt’s Mission for Change
What does it really mean to heal from the legacy of broken relationships? Is healing a passive process, something that happens to us over time, or is it an intentional, active choice we make—one that requires courage, resilience, and faith?
In this transformative episode, Charvette Shirk Pitt—founder of M.E.N. (Men Embracing Non-Violence) and author of Healing the Fatherless: Valuing and Validating the Daughter You Have Always Been—shares her deeply personal journey as a fatherless daughter, inviting us to confront our past, break free from generational cycles, and embrace a future of healing and empowerment.
Her book has been praised for its transformative approach, introducing the HEALED framework—Honesty, Eagle-eyed, Adjustability, Limitlessness, Endurance, and Digging through the layers—a step-by-step guide to overcoming trauma and reclaiming self-worth.
But her mission doesn’t stop there. Through her work with M.E.N., Charvette creates safe spaces for male survivors of domestic violence, amplifying voices often left unheard. She is breaking barriers, advocating for healing, and empowering others to reclaim their lives.
Whether you’re seeking healing for yourself, supporting someone you love, or striving to leave a better world for future generations, this episode offers valuable insights, practical tools, and hope. Charvette’s story reminds us that healing isn’t just about moving on—it’s about moving forward with purpose, power, and grace.
Show Notes:
Domestic Violence Resources:
- National Domestic Violence Hotline (USA):
- Website: www.thehotline.org
- Phone: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
- Text: Text "START" to 88788
- NCADV (National Coalition Against Domestic Violence):
- Website: www.ncadv.org
- Men’s Advocacy Resources for Domestic Violence:
- Male Survivor: www.malesurvivor.org
- Men’s Support Line (UK-Based): www.mensadviceline.org.uk
Connect with Charvette Shirk Pitt: LinkedIn
Learn more about Charvette’s journey and her HEALED framework in her book, Healing the Fatherless: Valuing and Validating the Daughter You Have Always Been, available on Amazon.
If you’re ready to grow your legacy and make a lasting impact, I’d love to connect with you. Whether it’s about securing the right insurance, exploring business solutions, or discussing how to protect and build your legacy, let’s start the conversation. You’re invited to schedule a Legacy Snapshot—a 15-minute session where we can explore how Savage Family Office can help you achieve your goals. Together, we’ll work to ensure that what you build today will stand strong for future generations. Schedule your Legacy Snapshot today and let’s take the first step towards leaving the pile higher.
Are you passionate about building your legacy or know someone with an inspiring story to share? We’re always looking for impactful guests to join the show. If you’d like to be considered as a guest or have questions about an episode, please send an email to leavethepilehigher@gmail.com.
