Leave the Pile Higher, Grow Your Legacy
In 1983, my father, a hardworking blue-collar worker, made a life-altering decision for our family. Faced with the choice of my education, he chose to send me to a private Catholic high school, despite the financial challenges. His reason was simple yet profound: “My job is to leave the pile higher for you and your sister.” This statement, a guiding principle of his life, didn't fully resonate with me until after his untimely passing in 2018. It's this legacy of selflessness and commitment that birthed 'Leave the Pile Higher: Grow Your Legacy'.
On what would have been my father's 75th birthday, I launched this podcast as an extension of his “Why”. Here, we explore the intangible aspects of legacy that go beyond monetary or material wealth. Each episode delves into stories of resilience, creativity, and how breaking societal scripts can lead to profound impacts on others.
Join us for heart-to-heart conversations with diverse guests who share their journeys of setbacks, triumphs, and unwavering hope. We discuss how small acts and bold decisions can contribute to a lasting legacy, proving that anyone can make a difference, no matter their financial or social standing.
'Leave the Pile Higher: Grow Your Legacy' isn't just a podcast; it's a movement, a tribute to my father and to all those who strive to make life better for the next generation. It's about acknowledging that while we can't control the length of our lives, we can control its width and depth.
Subscribe now and be part of this journey. Let’s honor the philosophy of leaving the pile higher, not just for ourselves, but for those who follow. Let's build.
Leave the Pile Higher, Grow Your Legacy
Washed Ashore: Small Acts, Big Impact on the Journey of Healing
Episode Description:
We often think about legacy as the things we leave behind—our titles, accomplishments, and possessions. But what if part of building a legacy includes knowing when to pause, heal, and restore ourselves? In this episode, I share a personal story from my family vacation that opened my eyes to the importance of healing as part of legacy-building.
It all started with some horseshoe crabs washed ashore on the beach in Ocean City. What I thought was just a quiet morning of reflection turned into a powerful lesson about life, legacy, and stepping out of my comfort zone. Along the way, we’ll explore how healing, support, and stepping out in faith all play a role in shaping the legacies we leave behind.
Tune in as we reflect on these key takeaways and consider how even small actions can have lasting impacts.
Show Notes:
- Introduction: Exploring the other side of legacy—healing and renewal.
- Family Vacation Story: A special beach trip during the final week of Pray 21 and the encounter with washed-up horseshoe crabs.
- Key Takeaways:
- Healing is Active: Legacy-building isn’t just about the grind; it requires making space for healing.
- Surround Yourself with Support: We need the right people around us to guide, uplift, and help us get back on track.
- Step Out of Your Comfort Zone: Growth happens when we step out in faith, even when it feels uncomfortable.
- Reflection on "Lean on Me" by Bill Withers: How the song hit me differently in this season, reminding me that we all need someone to lean on, especially as Black men.
- Closing: Legacy is shaped by our daily choices, the healing we allow, the support we embrace, and the courage to step beyond what’s familiar.
Credits:
- This episode references "The Star Thrower" by Loren Eiseley from The Unexpected Universe (1969).
- Mentioned song: Lean on Me by Bill Withers ©1972 Sussex Records. No lyrics were quoted in this episode.
If you’re ready to grow your legacy and make a lasting impact, I’d love to connect with you. Whether it’s about securing the right insurance, exploring business solutions, or discussing how to protect and build your legacy, let’s start the conversation. You’re invited to schedule a Legacy Snapshot—a 15-minute session where we can explore how Savage Family Office can help you achieve your goals. Together, we’ll work to ensure that what you build today will stand strong for future generations. Schedule your Legacy Snapshot today and let’s take the first step towards leaving the pile higher.
Are you passionate about building your legacy or know someone with an inspiring story to share? We’re always looking for impactful guests to join the show. If you’d like to be considered as a guest or have questions about an episode, please send an email to leavethepilehigher@gmail.com.
